My iphone

FINALLY ... I GOT IT!!
It's the iPhone.... my iPhone ... all I know is that I'm the only one
in my circle of friends and family who has it ^_^
I'll be back with more about it

CHEERS
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Different cultures … same attitude!!!

On the Internet we meet different people from different countries with different backgrounds

The chance of meeting someone from far away but with the same mind-set of people around you, which you probably are running away from is rare … well, it happened to me!! I met that guy!!!! I really liked him and considered him as a friend but he preferred to forget all about it when I refused to give him my real name (as he claimed)!!!! I was using real second name, it’s real in sense that @ home they call me (….)

We’ve been talking to each other on msn for almost 9 months … he is from UK and I’m from UAE, so you can see the big difference! However, he is very much exposed to Arabs by living in London, and has been so many times to Dubai … I guess that’s why he is acting like one of them!!

Few days ago when I was in Dubai, we had the following conversation:

What’s your real name?

You know it

No I don’t... Tell me your real name

(….) is one of my names

You don’t trust me do you?

Who said anything about trust … it has nothing to do with trust!

 

Early this week we had the same conversation but with more accusations and I don’t see him anymore online!! He was a very good friend and I like him …

 

Aren’t you gonna tell me your real name?

I told you my real name and you know it already do you think I’m lying?

I’m sure you have another name? why don’t you trust me?

Please don’t talk about trust, we know each other since almost last year and it’s enough for anyone to figure out if the other person is good, nice and honest or not

If you think that I’m a nice guy why you wanna hide your real name and your looks?! I wanna see you as well and talk to you… if you don't then you must have a bf

…etc

 

I tried to explain to him that it’s not easy for me to do that and he said that if I’m so open and talk to different people online then I should be willing to do whatever others are not doing! Then immediately he started guessing why I’m not willing to disclose my real name and go and meet him in public … he actually thought that I have a boyfriend (BF) and that’s why I’m not willing to go deep with him and talk about feelings!!! Can you imagine that?!

 

I never thought that men from foreign countries think the same way … even if h/they are right; a girl doesn’t have to tell everyone about her personal life, in fact no one should do that; we have to respect others privacy.

 

How far would you go on with online friends?

The minute you start apologizing for not providing a piece of information, you are accused of not trusting the other person.

If you immediately answer a personal question such as “what is your name?” you’ll be accused of being a liar!!!

Is it selfish to avoid talking about your personal life with online friends even though you’ve mentioned that at the beginning of the 1^stconversation you had, and even though they are willing to share theirs with you?

Back ... ^_^

if you are a regular reader of my blog then I apologize for the time-off i took ... it's been a long time!

if it's your first time to read my blog then I should say ... WELCOME .. and I wish you a pleasant time reading through it ☺

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ppl think if they are active during the day and their schedule is full until they go to bed then they are energetic and successful ... in my opinion that could be wrong!!

I was active almost for more than 70% of the total hours i have all day ... usually I sleep @ 00:00 until 07:00am when i wake up and prepare to go to work (i wake up @ 05:00am for alfajer prayer & go back to sleep), i stay active until 07:00pm; finish work @ 04:00pm after that i head to the city to either go to the gym or do some shopping. when i reach home @ 07:30pm i have other things to do ... i either go on the Internet, read, or watch TV until 11:30pm which gives me only 30 minutes to prepare to go to bed ...

some of my friends envy me for the free time i have, and guess what?! i don't have free time ... in fact i'm ready to pay all my savings to have extra hours!!! (how would it be if we have 30 hours a day?!!!!)

you'd probably ask, why am I not satisfied? is it because i work for too long? No!

is it because i do the shopping and exercise everyday? No!

then WHAT IS IT?

i don't have time to sit and chat with mom & dad :(

the older i get the more i think of them

so, i have decided to quite the gym and start working out @ home (sometimes dad joins me lolz) and postpone all the daily shopping till the weekend ... and most important is to have the wireless connection available in all areas @ home so that i can work while sitting next to mom in the living room (i'm still looking for the best router)

i remember one day mom said to me: I don't want you to stop your routine and cancel your appointments, all i want is to see you everyday in the morning and sit & talk to you before sun falls and kiss you before you go to bed ... that made me burst in tears feeling so bad that i made my mom suffer this much ... she misses me ... fdeetha ummi 7abibti

so for all of you ... busy dudes .. plz plz plz

RE-DEFINE YOUR PRIORITIES

with the changes i made to my schedule, not only that i've enjoyed the time with my parents, i have learned the more important skill someone could learn ... LISTENING

it takes time to change .. i know .. but it's worth it .. you will win at all costs

CHEERS

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